Get approached with The SINGLE cap

The SINGLE cap

An iconic, high-quality, subtle signal that matches your outfit and says: "I’m single. Now’s your chance." Don’t leave them guessing. Perfect for coffee shops, bookstores, trains, or literally anywhere you could meet someone naturally.

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MAKE THE FIRST MOVE WITH FlirtNotes™

FlirtNotes™

The psychology-backed note that helps you start something without saying a word. Hand it over, walk away. They smile, they message (if they’re into it). A classy, controlled way to meet someone naturally — without any awkward pickup lines.

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Why aren’t we meeting “in the wild” anymore?

The truth is, we have forgotten how it works. We are unsure, nervous, or afraid of rejection — even when we see someone amazing.

But here’s the truth:
Many women want to be approached. Many want to meet someone naturally.

So what if you could give them a little help?

No apps, no coaching, no matchmaking.

Just effective tools that empower them to have their own meet-cute moments?

What we do

We’re flipping the script of modern dating with simple, psychology-backed tools that help you connect the old-fashioned way: in real life, through organic dating. We have the dating tools that dating apps don't want you to know about.

About us

What our customers say...

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    "FlirtNotes are lowkey genius!! It’s like the modern version of passing a note in class... but grown-up and actually kind of sweet."

    Emma, 32

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    "I totally forgot I had the cap on, went to get a coffee, and this guy just came up and asked for my number! I'm giving four stars, because I want to see more colours!!"

    Olivia, 29

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    "I handed a FlirtNote to a guy at my gym café — didn’t expect anything. He texted later saying it was the coolest thing anyone's done!"
    Charlotte, 34

What's organic dating?

Organic dating is about seeking out real moments and letting them happen, naturally. No swiping. No awkwardness. Just two people, catching each other’s eye — and actually doing something about it.
We help you make the moment happen: with simple psychology-backed tools that work like magic.

More about organic dating

Designed for those who:

- want to meet someone IRL

- want to date without dating apps

- want something more practical than to “get out there”

- want romance and their own real life meet-cute

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Why it’s surprisingly effective

They are there. You just may not find them on the apps. They’re sitting near you at the café. Standing behind you in line. Grabbing lunch at the food truck. Walking their dog in the park.

With The SINGLE cap and our FlirtNotes™, you create your own meet-cute moment.

Go against the flow - join the organic dating movement.

Being single should not equal being desperate.

It’s about being seen. It's about choosing.

Writing your own story.

And sometimes, the best way to start one… is to write the first line.

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    "I was so tired of dating apps — just endless scrolling and no responses... Now I finally feel like I’m in control of my dating life again. So empowering!"
    Sarah, 31

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    Honestly, I love how easy these are to fit into my day. Depending on how I feel I just put on the SINGLE cap or keep some FlirtNotes in my bag, and that’s it!

    Mia, 27

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    No more hours wasted on dating apps or awkward dating events. So much less stressful!! And they WORK. Got approached by a guy twice this week — never happened before. Loving this! :)

    Sophia, 32

Where it all started...


One night, we joked that we should just wear signs that say “SINGLE” to get men to actually approach us. What started as a half-serious idea turned into something bigger...

Read our story

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